题记:到了我们这个年纪总要被迫承受一些生离死别,而未来有一天我们终会释然。
上午发微信给朋友,帮忙取下东西邮寄过来,他回:“这几天不行,我爸今天早晨去世了。” 心梗,心情突然变得沉重起来,随着年纪的增长,面对生离死别就越来越多,一时不知道回复些什么好,仅仅告诉他照顾好家人,照顾好自己。这个世上本来就没有什么能够让我们永恒拥有的。无论何时总要面对离别,总要适应离别。
可能年纪大了,可以坦然面对很多事情,有些类似得之我幸,失之我命的状态。这两年是我的流年,中年劳心,孩子问题占了比重太大了,二宝儿的病一时不好,心就一直悬着,2岁了,还不会走,语言智力都落后太多,准备南下继续求医,我开始坚持做公益,已经14个月了,无论二宝儿因为什么原因导致的病情,只是希望给她积德祈福,从现在开始,给自己两年的时间,希望能给孩子一个光明的未来,让她像正常孩子一样成长、学习和生活,钱没了可以再赚,像我这样的人,总不会碌碌无为的,把这段经历当成一场修行吧。
近期有些懒散,这样不好,要改变。不可以膨胀,那样只会让自己爆炸,所以要冷静面对一切。
纽约时间比加州时间早三个小时,
New York is 3 hours ahead of California,
但加州时间并没有变慢。
but it does not make California slow.
有人22岁就毕业了,
Someone graduated at the age of 22,
但等了五年才找到好的工作!
but waited 5 years before securing a good job!
有人25岁就当上CEO,
Someone became a CEO at 25,
却在50岁去世。
and died at 50.
也有人迟到50岁才当上CEO,
While another became a CEO at 50,
然后活到90岁。
and lived to 90 years.
有人依然单身,
Someone is still single,
同时也有人已婚。
while someone else got married.
欧巴马55岁就退休,
Obama retires at 55,
川普70岁才开始当总统。
but Trump starts at 70.
世上每个人本来就有自己的发展时区。
Absolutely everyone in this world works based on their Time Zone.
身边有些人看似走在你前面,
People around you might seem to go ahead of you,
也有人看似走在你后面。
some might seem to be behind you.
但其实每个人在自己的时区有自己的步程。
But everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME.
不用嫉妒或嘲笑他们。
Don’t envy them or mock them.
他们都在自己的时区里,你也是!
They are in their TIME ZONE, and you are in yours!
生命就是等待正确的行动时机。
Life is about waiting for the right moment to act.
所以,放轻松。
So, RELAX.
你没有落后。
You’re not LATE.
你没有领先。
You’re not EARLY.
在命运为你安排的属于自己的时区里,一切都准时。
You are very much ON TIME, and in your TIME ZONE Destiny set up for you.